{"id":39145,"date":"2019-01-01T21:37:33","date_gmt":"2019-01-02T03:37:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/?p=39145"},"modified":"2019-01-01T21:37:33","modified_gmt":"2019-01-02T03:37:33","slug":"burning-the-old-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/burning-the-old-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Burning the Old Man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been wonderfully occupied over the last several weeks. I&#8217;d rather say that than &#8220;busy.&#8221; Work was brisk enough through December that I&#8217;m able to enjoy a five-day (and counting) holiday. I&#8217;m using the time to do homework for a course I&#8217;m taking that should help me expand my business.<\/p>\n<p>On the social side of things, I&#8217;ve joined a bowling club that puts no pressure on me &#8212; if I can make a game, I do, and if I can&#8217;t, I don&#8217;t. It&#8217;s tons of fun and I&#8217;ve met some wonderful people. A lovely couple from Regina had me over for Christmas dinner and then I went to their house for a New Year&#8217;s Eve party yesterday.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_39148\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-39148\" class=\"wp-image-39148 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/48411594_410362459705633_4527565549177143296_n-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/48411594_410362459705633_4527565549177143296_n-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/48411594_410362459705633_4527565549177143296_n-619x825.jpg 619w, http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/48411594_410362459705633_4527565549177143296_n.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-39148\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Me bowling the worst game of my life &#8212; it as around 11PM and I was basically sleep bowling!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I can&#8217;t remember the last time I was out for New Year&#8217;s, never mind a late as I was! A highlight was joining a group of their neighbours for setting off fire crackers and fireworks, as well as &#8220;burning the old man,&#8221; the effigy of the last year. It was all very sedate compared to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/new-years-in-amsterdam\/\">New Year&#8217;s Eve in Amsterdam<\/a>, but equally communal.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a lot coming up in the next weeks. My cousin is coming to visit me for 10 days. I need to get cracking on getting health insurance before rates go up dramatically when I turn 40 in a few months. I&#8217;d like to get to work on acquiring my Yucat\u00e1n driver&#8217;s license. And I&#8217;m planning a trip to Mazatl\u00e1n that will likely be the second week of March. That&#8217;s not nearly as far away as it sounds!<\/p>\n<p>What a difference to this time last year when I still didn&#8217;t know anyone, didn&#8217;t have a dog who was so happy to see me come home in the wee hours of the morning that she voluntarily cuddled with me for a bit before bed, and still had so many huge expenses ahead of me that there was almost nothing left for extras. As long as I can convince my landlady to renew my lease in September, 2019 is going to be smooooth sailing and I can continue to work on building my life here. It&#8217;s pretty amazing that I don&#8217;t have to do anything immigration-related (as long as I don&#8217;t move).<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m really starting to feel settled, but not in a negative way like I&#8217;ve felt in the past at Haven, where feeling settled meant settling, accepting that an unacceptable situation really was the best I could do and more than I deserved. I have an incredible quality of life here and my standard of living keeps going up. I should be very close to debt-free again by the end of this year and that&#8217;s going to change things dramatically. But in the meantime, I have a beautiful home to enjoy, a challenging career, a loving dog, and new friends, all in a city that releases its secrets slowly enough to keep my nomad soul satisfied.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Feliz a\u00f1o!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been wonderfully occupied over the last several weeks. I&#8217;d rather say that than &#8220;busy.&#8221; Work was brisk enough through December that I&#8217;m able to enjoy a five-day (and counting) holiday. I&#8217;m using the time to do homework for a course I&#8217;m taking that should help me expand my business. 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