{"id":35983,"date":"2017-05-24T22:38:33","date_gmt":"2017-05-25T02:38:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/?p=35983"},"modified":"2017-05-24T22:38:33","modified_gmt":"2017-05-25T02:38:33","slug":"once-upon-a-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/once-upon-a-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Once Upon a Time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Stories I will tell when I am an old woman rocking on my porch&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Once upon a time, I had homes with no running water in winter and that required effort to heat. It was normal for me to survive half the year as I hung on to the promise of a few months of respite from the drudgery.<\/p>\n<p>Once upon a time, I had bosses who were downright abusive and made me question my self-worth even as I worked myself to the bone for them. I had jobs that required back breaking manual labour and jobs with mind numbing tedium.<\/p>\n<p>Once upon a time, I believed what my society told me, that to have a &#8220;good life&#8221; I couldn&#8217;t begin\u00a0to live until I was in my sixties. And that the good life came at a hefty price tag I wasn&#8217;t sure I wanted to work hard enough to pay for anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Once upon a time, I finally quit the rat race to search for my own version of the good life. Followed years that had long periods of hunger and drudgery that were a small price to pay for the wonders I saw.<\/p>\n<p>Once upon a time, I found myself having high tea in one of the most expensive cities in the world. I finally understood what people meant when they said they had &#8220;arrived.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Once upon a time,\u00a0I chose to live where there is a perpetual summer. I turned my back on survival and began to demand more for myself.<\/p>\n<p>Once upon a time, there was a day when the housekeepers took care of the tedium of house minding\u00a0while I worked hard at my own enterprise. I then had a Skype meeting with a client and cemented a new contract that would secure my immediate future. After, it was\u00a0time to go for a swim, play with the dog, lie on a chaise longue with a cold beer and bask in the sun for spell, and finally I made a\u00a0lovely dinner in my spotless kitchen.<\/p>\n<p>Once upon a time, I realised that over the course of several years\u00a0I had inched my way across a line that could never be crossed again. That I wanted comfort and beautiful things and to be able to take an evening off without feeling guilty about it. I had found the Good Life and, best of all, I could not only appreciate it, <em>I had earned it<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stories I will tell when I am an old woman rocking on my porch&#8230; Once upon a time, I had homes with no running water in winter and that required effort to heat. It was normal for me to survive half the year as I hung on to the promise of a few months of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,14,635,11,1650,3,894],"tags":[45],"class_list":["post-35983","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-homemaking","category-mexico","category-north-america","category-personal","category-progresochelemchuburna","category-travel","category-yucatan","tag-moving-to-mexico"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35983","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35983"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35983\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35990,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35983\/revisions\/35990"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}