{"id":21859,"date":"2010-09-04T10:48:57","date_gmt":"2010-09-04T17:48:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/travelswithmiranda.uskeba.ca\/?p=8973"},"modified":"2016-09-15T20:28:26","modified_gmt":"2016-09-15T17:28:26","slug":"pecuniary-shyness-or-this-is-real-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/pecuniary-shyness-or-this-is-real-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Pecuniary Shyness, or This is Real Life!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some RVers like to talk at great length about their finances, to the point of splashing out for all to see their balance sheets. I made a decision early on to gloss over this topic because I realised early on that full-time RVing is real life. Let me repeat that: full-time RVing is a lifestyle choice, not a perpetual vacation. Everyone&#8217;s reality and circumstances are different. I don&#8217;t see any value in going into any sort of detail about my financial portrait.<\/p>\n<p>This issue has come up several times over the past few days. I&#8217;ve had someone comment that I &#8216;owed&#8217; it to other RVers to explain how I get by day to day financially so that they could emulate me (!). Another person was appalled that I &#8216;steal&#8217; from the thrift and free stores since I&#8217;m obviously well off, with a &#8216;nice motorhome and recent model car.&#8217;\u00a0 Another doesn&#8217;t get the difference between being &#8216;tight&#8217; (choosing not to do or buy certain things in order to do or buy other things) and being &#8216;broke&#8217; (not being able to do or buy anything). If I lived a mainstream life, no one would expect me to pull out my balance sheet, they would understand how someone my age living in her own home and driving a recent model car might need to be frugal in other areas of her life, and they&#8217;d understand that not being able to do it &#8216;all&#8217; is normal!<\/p>\n<p>So far, the financials of my RVing life have been very cyclical. I have had periods with good cashflow and periods with bad cashflow. During the good periods I get caught up and during bad periods I try not to get behind. The goal is, of course, to balance out these periods and provide a steadier cashflow instead of one with gigantic negative and positive peaks. This summer was my first taste of this ideal cashflow vision and it has been lovely, but I am now heading back into squirrel mode, especially since I have a couple of big expenses coming up.<\/p>\n<p>One thing to keep in mind is that I&#8217;m single with only cats as my dependents. That gives me a lot of freedom in how I choose to allocate my money. Once the bills are paid and I&#8217;ve put money away for retirement and emergencies, there is no one to care if I decide to buy a new toy and eat beans for a month. But if I were to put all of this on a balance sheet for the world to say, I&#8217;d have to erase a lot of comments from people with different priorities and values who think they have a right to tell me how I should be managing things. I might as well save them the trouble. \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some RVers like to talk at great length about their finances, to the point of splashing out for all to see their balance sheets. I made a decision early on to gloss over this topic because I realised early on that full-time RVing is real life. Let me repeat that: full-time RVing is a lifestyle [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[632,1126,44,635,11,5,3,1040],"tags":[1447,1469],"class_list":["post-21859","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-canada","category-dawson-city-yukon-canada-travel","category-finance","category-north-america","category-personal","category-rving","category-travel","category-yukon","tag-cats-in-an-rv","tag-klondike-highway"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21859","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21859"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21859\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21859"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21859"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.raecrothers.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21859"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}